The past couple of years I have been flexing my ask muscles! The concept of asking for what I want, simply because I desire it, has been a pleasure-filled road. Challenging, but pleasure-filled.
I am blown away by the fact that I do actually get what I want!
My outrageous act of the week is this: I asked my employers if they would pay for my pricy, yet awesome Pilates membership. Essentially, a sweet little raise. I was so afraid to do this. Afraid they would think I was being greedy or out of line. All kinds of nasty little negative future fantasies squatted and took little dumbs on my mind. But then I conceded to this…….I am going to live a life so outrageous, so out loud that I will never apologize for wanting what I want! I wrote the email, made my request. I did it!
I haven’t heard back yet, but now that I have asked, the answer seems to matter a little less.
What shall I ask for next?